Hey you guys!
Soooo the fifth day theme is about my parents. Ohohoho how should I start this story
Weeell, so a little background about my parents. My dad is Javanese and he lived in his hometown (more like a village) until umm I dont know how old he is when he left to Jakarta. So yea basically that. My mom is from Padang BUT she never lived there, instead she lived umm in well let’s say surrounding area of Jakarta because she moved for times to times. That’s because my grandfather (her dad) was a soldier. So yea, she’s Minang (ethnic group native to the Minangkabau Highlands of West Sumatra) but not really a Minang, if that makes sense. I meant she cant even speak the language hahaha.
My parents age gap is quite big, I think it’s 7 or 8 years. And today I am going to tell you a story about how they met but not really met though umm more like their dating story, which sometimes I find quite weird, funny but cute? I guess? Or not?
Sooo anywaaay… I still remember very well when my mother said that my father asked if she wanted to hang out with him. Then, she came to visit my dad at his college and they went to eat meatballs soup (I think it’s considered as a streetfood in Indonesia). They paid separately and then my dad told my mom that he is going to class and so he left her. Then she came back home by public transport. My dad is so not romantic, at all hahahahha. When my mom told my brother and I, we were really confused: why are you dating him again? In Indonesia, we have this word called bucin and it literally means love slave. So yea basically a fool for love. Yes, you can imagine that we teased her bucin all day long afterwards.
There was also this time when we went to a restaurant for lunch together. On our way back home, we passed this nice housing complex near the restaurant and my dad giggled a little and said
“my ex used to live here *giggle*”
and then my mom said “OH! I REMEMBER HER! YOUR DAD WAS SO AWFUL!”
my brother and I were confused “okay… so what happened? And dad, you used to date a rich woman and you married mom? (this is just a joke between us guys, chill)”
“So there was this time when your dad brought me to this place to visit someone. This girl was there and I had no clue your dad was dating her. Well I dont know if they were still dating or not to be honest but yea basically they had something. I was clueless”
“Oh mom… and dad, dammit what a sly”
So basically from the stories that I heard, my mom is basically bucin and my dad is… sly? Jesus, this post made my dad looked awful, isnt it? I guess I would describe my dad during his younger times iseng (doing something mischievous with simple intention to annoy others, basically to annoy my mom).
Okay one last story about my parents but this one is after they got married. I heard this story from my aunt and this is a story during their newlywed period. You see, my mom is not a good cook. We had a maid when I was a kid until ummm before I started working? I guess 3-4 years ago? So yea. My mom, being a bucin newlywed, initiated to go to a traditional market to buy groceries. (My dad is the one who usually buy stuffs, yes, until now)
“So where’s the shrimp?”
“There is no shrimp at the market?”
“What? How come? That cant be. Did you go the the usual place that I told you?”
“Yes but I swear there is no shrimp”
“I dont belive you. Lets go there again”
And so they went to the market. “See, they are selling shrimp!”
“But… it’s grey. Shrimp is supposed to be red”
“…………… It is red when you cook them”
I swear I can imagine my dad’s reaction when my mom said that ahhahahah oh good lord.
Well, those are some stories of my dad and mom in their younger days. They are not the sweet cute couple in my eyes. But they are more like ummm I dont know comedy duo? My dad likes to tease and joke about my mom while my mom is a slave love who are getting “bullied” by my dad (and her kids). Oh… I see where my “bully-able” trait comes from… (not getting bullied guys, but my friends love to tease me because of my reactions).
Oh well. I guess every couple is different right? And this is my parents dating/married style I guess